you are trying to do some effort to woo her because obviously you want her that much to insert some driving force in it
The strong urge to impress and woo the girl we desire, We have it in our minds that if I only knew the right things to do, or the right things to say, that we would be able to woo the girl that we want It’s a powerful determination , after all…
So let’s get started.
you try to impress her to win her affection, charm her, so you do all your friends says you need to do in order for you to win a girl’s heart, to kiss her, and if youre that lucky enough to have your first experience with her, anyway who doesnt want that? i think every teenager wants to experience this very eagerly, to do anything just to get her in bed, and for the fact that hormones of a teenager is crazy, over empowering.... im sure you agree with me on this, so the question is what do we really need to do just to get her?
Get close.
Hang out near her and listen to what the girl and her friends are saying. (Don't make it a dead giveaway that you're listening.) Then approach them and say, " pardon me but i heard you talking about blah blah blah". but look for the right timing though, dont just breach in without any idea what they're really talking about, or you just make out a fool of yourself, anyway It should go naturally; if not then perhaps you should rethink this girl. Chemistry matters, how could you work it out if ever if you dont click together eh?
Confidence is key.
You've seen people walk around with their heads hanging, shuffling their feet as they walk. They look beaten, unhappy, defeated. That isn't attractive to anyone! If you want to attract a woman who's out of your league, then show her you're confident. Hold your head up,(but not too high like if you want to start a fight) walk like you're proud to be you, delighted with who you are - but not arrogant, maintain eye contact if talking to her, and bring out your best eye contact as posible and in your mind says ( you will fall in love with me)... hehe i think it works. then watch how others walk and carry themselves and try to mimic the confident behaviors you see, but dont try to be someone else,you were not.
Be yourself....
Except without the farting and butt scratching. Try to be a gentleman try to smile a lot in her when you saw her, say "HI" and try to compliment her whenever you can, girls always wants to be complimented you know. just say "ahmm you look so pretty today" or just a simple "nice smile" :)
Leave her wanting more.
Don't wait for her to break the conversation off the first few times. Keep conversations short, interesting and active, and then go away. Let her know you have to go (she doesn't need to know why), wish her a good day, and walk away. but dont say " u know what" then go away, it will offened her for sure, just finish a short conversation then say "nice talking to you but i need to go, see you around girl"
Don't tell her about her looks.
Find out what other qualities she has that make her an outstanding girl. Ask her about herself and her interest. girl who are used to being noticed for their outer appearance won't be swayed easily by comments on their physical appearance. Be different and find the inner beauty (you can still admire the outer beauty in your own thoughts :). you can say" you know what you're fun to be with" or" i like talking to you, you're so nice " and follow with "and so cute " or "so pretty"
But do compliment her.
Did she do an awesome job on her speech , or just even on recitations? Let her know, and be genuine. Highlight some parts that you enjoyed or tell her about an article you read about the topic. just say" "youre so good in delivering your blah blah blah" especially on the part that you said blah blah blah" hehe but dont say bla blah blah eh, bla blah blah means the topic that your talking about :)
Beautiful girls don't look around and see faces as attractive as their own - they see YOUR face and others like it. But they DO appreciate someone who makes them laugh. Be optimistic and cheerful at least memorize some clean jokes that you think is really funny, and dont make a personal jokes out of her or about her friends or she will think you are an asshole, and leads to ignoring you for life
Hide in plain sight.
Sometimes, you meet and upon spending a little time with a girl, realize you have very strong feelings for her that you won't be able to hide. Don't. Just keep it light and start hitting on her immediately. If you make a little joke of it and say things like, "She's crazy about me," or "Of course I'm staring at you, you're the girl of my dreams." (wiggles eyebrows up and down suggestively with a big, cheesy smile for her)to her friends while she's standing right there, it will just be part of the way you get along very early on. But careful: if she doesn't giggle or seem amused and a little bit flattered, this will not work and will become tiresome very quickly. Watch for her reaction and adjust.
Friendly get togethers.
Ask her out on a friendly date so you can see how much you guys really have in common. And if she is conceited then you will be grateful you didn't ask her out on a real date
TIPS
Looking nice makes you feel nice. they said what you are inside shows up in the outside so if you feels good inside you will look good outside probably
If her friends don't like you, she probably won't be as open to spending time with you. Don't be mean to them or pull their hair--there are other ways to get to know a girl! Be in their group when it's time for a class presentation and let your personality shine. exert some extra effort just to impress her and her friends as well, if she noticed that her friends like you, maybe she'll find time to know you better.
Let's get real - she may take your breath away, but if you don't really like her once you get to know her, it won't have been worth the effort. If you can be friends, figure out what common interests you share, and discover that you get along well once you know her better, she's worth the wait.... like on what i experienced, i like this girl from school, shes so pretty and so bubbly plus shes tall and always dressed to impress, but when i was already spending more time with her i discovered that she always said bad things to other and even into her ex, and shes so into material things... so it turns me off, and i realize shes not that pretty at all.... maybe because i valued attitude more than looks, coz if you love the girl even if shes not the prettiest, for you she is.... so thats why personality is more important right?
WARNINGS:
- Be honorable.
- Don't try a cheesy pickup line, especially if she's standing with her friends.
- The last thing she needs is ANOTHER puppy dog
- If she insults you without smiling, then BACK OFF.
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A gentleman is one who never hurts anyone's feelings unintentionally= =by: oscar wilde
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This woman rushed to see her doctor, looking very much worried and all strung out. She rattles off: “Doctor,
take a look at me. When I woke up this morning, I looked at myself in the mirror and saw my hair all wiry
and frazzled up, my skin was all wrinkled and pasty, my eyes were bloodshot and bugging out, and I had this
corpse-like look on my face! What’s WRONG with me, Doctor!?”
The doctor looks her over for a couple of minutes, then calmly says:
“Well, I can tell you that there ain’t nothing wrong with your eyesight….”
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